Tag Archives: happiness
The Love Bug
Shall We Dance
My Life’s Rules
Great Essentials of Life
I now have lived long enough to know the real essentials in life. The reminders flow into my life constantly. All I need to do is look at a photograph of my grandsons or look deeply into the eyes of my husband or children and everything is put into perspective. I find myself researching my roots and trying to remember memorable events about my childhood. I don’t think it’s a baby boomer mentality. A friend told me that baby boomers go through a similar experience.
My journeys continue. My goals remain stronger than ever. My bucket list grows longer by the day. I suppose that is a good strategy to keep yourself in check. I still hope for world peace. I believe in the wonder of Santa Claus. I believe in God above all things. I even believe in myself lately. I ask myself about destiny. I wonder about if there is another side. Although I still ask the why questions about things, I think I figured out some of the mysteries about my soul.
Joseph Addison, an English essayist, once said, “The great essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love and something to hope for.”
I think I have most of these covered. However, I believe there is a continuum. You have to shift the focus every so often. You also have to be grateful for everything in your life. Some experiences will be magical, inspirational, and others will bring you done like a roller coaster out of control. But that is what makes up this thing called life. It is what makes us alive. To live is to learn. Your heart will tell you what do each time you are in doubt. Just listen. Don’t let doubts creep up on you and fill you with fears. Be still and you will find the answers you are looking for.
The essentials to happiness are clear to me now. I listen to my feelings and take notes. I try to hug the people I love a few more counts of Mississippi. I take deep breaths to avoid getting upset over nothing. I take longer breaks for me to be me. I pray more. I send out blessings into the universe for anyone who may need them. I visualize only as far as I can see. I locked my ego outside of my heart. I forgive and forget.
The essentials of happiness begin with every new day. This is what I have learned and will live by. I imagine a field of Daisies waving hello and greeting me. That always puts a smile on my face.
An Unexpected Visit from a Unicorn
In this poem I have used some nonsense words I made up.
The rain breeped through the lofty trees
on this clograyly fall day
The hardy mums left from the summer
were however happy that they had stayed.
Golinlimpling down the steep hill
sprinted a beautiful unicorn
eager to meet the lovers
just married in the storm.
The unicorn’s voice so sweet and spiritual
whispered secrets from the future
to the sweethearts and their guests
Sunflowers suddenly stood to attention
as the sun sneaked in from the east
a splendid day will be after all
let us feast, oh, let us feast!
The soul mates slowly strolled
into the certainty of their tomorrows;
the unicorn confided there would not be any sorrows.
The unicorn disappeared
No one has ever seen it since
the lovers are now married forty years
happy and content.
A visit from a smile
A smile visited my face today
and will not go away
but that’s OK
I do not want it erased
I want my grandchildren to see
how happy they make me.
Another Musette
Love life
to the fullest
and rise
The sun
greets you only
for fun
Happy
be forever
with me
Melba Christie 2014
Happiness in the present
Happiness is in the present
It’s here now. right this moment, Stop and listen: Its whisper will mesmerize you. Stop for a minute and breathe; Its scent is in the rose. Stop for a second and let your yourself feel; Its touch is like a child’s heartfelt hug. Stop for an instant It looks like a rainbow. Stop and savor the moment It tastes like cotton candy. Happiness is right here. Don’t let it go by you. It is in the present. Just pay attention.

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Be Happy
There are as many nights as days,
and the one is just as long as the other
in the year’s course. Even a happy life
cannot be without a measure of darkness,
and the word ‘happy’ would lose its meaning
if it were not balanced with sadness.
What makes you happy? Please post your thoughts on Twitter or right here at Poemattic.
After reading this quote, I thought about the things that make me happy and better still what I can do to be happier. I believe the secret is this: be unafraid of change, savor the moment when big things happen but be the happiest with the small things. Small events happen every second of the day that may bring a smile to your face.
Accept happiness unconditionally. Restore what childhood and youth provided for us which is the ability to see beauty in many things. Most of the time beauty is present in the small things. Happiness will sneak up on us and we must learn to keep it close by.
Thoreau said to “keep pace with the drummer you hear, however measured or far away.” That drummer announces the happy and the sad and there lies the balance we need. So like the song says, “be happy, don’t worry.” Happiness is never far away.
These are a few of the things that make me truly happy and not necessarily in the order they are in:
- waking up to a gorgeous sun rise
- watching the trees sway
- a child’s chuckle
- my grandsons’ smiles
- my daughter’s eyes when she is happy
- my son when he calls just to say hello
- my family
- my husband’s tender look
- a field of aromatic lavender
- sincerity
- when I observe someone being compassionate
- a conversation with my best friend
- knowing I have been helpful to someone
- cooking for family and friends
- listening to old records or CDs
- a crunchy apple
- a vase full of fresh cut daisies
- Painting
- Writing
- Poetry
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when you smile
when you smile
a heart is bound to leap
even when deception has kept it
sound asleep
when you smile
the image is for keeps
when you smile
someone might smile right back
and put you back on track
when you smile
you help someone ease their pain
when you smile
the world may smile with you
and keep you sane
when you smile
no one can lose
and no one is to blame
when you smile
the alternative is to choose
to be happy
and find that all in life
is still worthwhile
so as the song says
just smile.
Joy
Joy
The ecstasy that
directs
our inner light
so that others
heal
as we grow rich
with empathy,
compassion and love.
All it takes is one selfless
act of kindness
one moment of infinite patience
when it is totally unexpected.
– Melba Christie
How do you define joy? What are the top ten things that create joy?
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